Charlotte Dale asked adult film stars about livening up her relationship, and how they handle sex in their relationships. She got an answer that many men, especially young men who watch a lot of adult fare, should keep in mind.
“I explain to them there’s a huge difference between real sex and sex on camera,” said Ms. Daniels, of meeting men in real life. “Sex on camera is about what looks good and real sex—for lack of a better term—is about what feels good. So I’m not expecting you to have washboard abs, or a huge penis. And I’m hoping you don’t expect me to come to bed with false eyelashes and porno hair and perfectly airbrushed skin either. Once you explain to them it’s all smoke and mirrors, they deal with it.”